On the sense of security, give you a rational explanation

For security words, many people may have experienced a kind of confusion, in the end what is security? In fact, the sense of security, word definition, a dare to give up the ability of self-love and affection. This statement includes three parts:
1, dare to give up the self-level.
including some of your life, principles and attitudes, the more you dare give up more and more and more sense of security.
2, the degree of favor.
addition dare to give up self, you have to be pet, simply aim is to give up self for the pet. The higher the degree of favor, then the higher sense of security.
3, the degree of your ability.
This is an objective material conditions, even if you dare give up the self, Ye very good pet, but you do not have physical, economic base, then the sense of security still not fully established. Your ability is stronger, the stronger sense of security.


security friend:
1, independent and fair to
only each other have an independent spirit and fair manner, so giving, can establish a harmonious sense of security, based on one given, one based on the acceptance of security, called the dependent, this sense of security is one-sided.
2, responsibility
responsibility, is a superstructure, must be based on certain types of emotional or physical, has the responsibility to promote students based on a sense of security, otherwise it has no roots responsibility, ultimately, become tasteless.
3, white lie relative to the metaphysical
frank, white lie is the security umbrella, of course, white lies, if turned into a fraud, that sooner or later, only a comprehensive defeat.

sense of security of the enemy:
1, too free attitude towards life;
uphold freedom of happy people, must be very difficult to give up the self. Unless you experience a life style, hobbies, similar ideological level, and if you met, you had to go Goushi Yun.
2, metaphysical frank;
people to give up the self, necessarily difficult, occasionally curved Folding, if adherence to a simple and frank, it is easy to completely end all lose.
3, too content, too charismatic, too have the ability;
people to do too good, too have a sense of security, will only bring a consequence, no security, if You are too good, properly understood, the appropriate risk point of silly, and for your very helpful. Unless you can experience the same with you a good person, have the same realm, if you ran, you had to go Goushi Yun.

this thing for a sense of security, everyone has a different understanding, the reason is obvious, but to be consistent with a profound understanding of it is difficult, it is difficult to do on Add hard. Insights and practices for security, there are two: First, experience in practice is good or bad to try a natural know; first to practice after a profound understanding of it, and together seek to create it, protect it method. But not by practice, and never deep understanding, so I recommend you first try to understand later. After the practice in understanding, in practice, concluded in the summary of the communication, a more profound understanding of communication, if two people can go the way of this healthy, that is bliss. Finally, reminder, here referred to a sense of security, only for two people get along with emotional problems, is a purely intellectual discussion, real life, many people do not understand the content, the same can live happily quickly Discovery like air, not to see, to breathe.